I Remember a phrase in a film called Kurudhi Punal in which kamal says to naazar "courage is nothing but acting as if there is no fear in us". very true to wat he says, everyone has fear in us.
The fear of losing, fear of dark, fear of people, fear of things, fear of God, thre are many things that we afraid of. Fear by itself is always good it helps us to get back to our Good roots firmly, but when it goes beyond a point is where we tend to lose.
our progress and growth are affected worsely with being a fear of loss on our minds, our success and failures are to be taken equally, only with this thought i think we can fairly move ahead. the courage is wat will make a difference where ever we go, in interviews, public speaking, proposing etc.,
the Highly paid IITians and IIMs are paid for their critical thinking and courage on taking things head on. the critical thinking and logically thinking are nothing but the courage on things.
Not everyone does things the best the 1st time, but the practise and overcome of failures are the key to success, how soon we recover from our bad memories and failures and learn from our experiences is wat it always matters. that where the books and others experiences play a vital role.
I dint mean to say you need to take things all head on, its absolute foolishness. i here the calculated risk we tend to take, everything has a time and wait and watch for the best of opportunities and grab when it comes. the Courage we take to take the risk is the key to success of all the things.
Gud luck.
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
My Prayer to God is different..
God I had given Rs.2 to a begger when i was 5yrs old so give me Rs.2000 now, you know the inflation has gone multiple time from when i was 5yrs to now.
every time we go to a worship place we tend to ask God give me this, give me that, see i ve done this so give me this & that. We keep begging for something or the other everytime we to WP.
why do we do that our expectation meter keeps always rising, when we want a mobile and once we got it, then next prayer will be camera mobile, then its bike, Car etc., our needs doesnt end there. I never mean to say that we should be not be asking, afterall we believe that God alone can help us. when we dont get wat we want we curse God too, say he never cares for us, x y z., in prayer if God want to give us, he would give without even asking, not just wait for us to give it, if otherwise even if we cry and roll we wont get it.
so wat to do, not everytime we do the same prayer of asking something, give it a break, there are many things which is happening around us, say thanks.
just go to WP and relax without thinking and asking. jus thnk on something good and our agony and relax. well thats what i feel we should do, the rest i m very novice to tell.
every time we go to a worship place we tend to ask God give me this, give me that, see i ve done this so give me this & that. We keep begging for something or the other everytime we to WP.
why do we do that our expectation meter keeps always rising, when we want a mobile and once we got it, then next prayer will be camera mobile, then its bike, Car etc., our needs doesnt end there. I never mean to say that we should be not be asking, afterall we believe that God alone can help us. when we dont get wat we want we curse God too, say he never cares for us, x y z., in prayer if God want to give us, he would give without even asking, not just wait for us to give it, if otherwise even if we cry and roll we wont get it.
so wat to do, not everytime we do the same prayer of asking something, give it a break, there are many things which is happening around us, say thanks.
just go to WP and relax without thinking and asking. jus thnk on something good and our agony and relax. well thats what i feel we should do, the rest i m very novice to tell.
Expectations unfulfilled
Our Expectation at most times are'nt full filled, why is that so?
i have many expectations on many things and people, i do expect alot of things, but most times it has failed, i feel very bad when people dont keep up to their words.
why should i expect something then, i think that expectations is the cause of all our depressions and sadness. when people dont expect anything from anyone, everything seems to be a surpise, things always are good.
but why do people expect something from anyone, be it a greeting card for birthday, gifts, favours, money, bribe, or anything. not because they have done something the same for others but sheer laziness and selfishness. Our lord God has said do to others whatever you want others to do it for you.
Bribe or favour are apart of the expectations, if a person doesnt do as the expectant then the person gets punished or dealt in a way which is doesnt favour him.
When we dont expect anything even a return favor it always makes us to stand up and keep our heads up in achieving a task of helping others.
and helping without expecting anything in return, not even from God is the noblest things on earth.
Let keep doing our good deeds as long as we can, otherwise lets stick to simple things, but let try keep our expectations the minimum. this will make us strong, make us confident on ourselves, our hard work alone will lead us to victory.
Good luck..
i have many expectations on many things and people, i do expect alot of things, but most times it has failed, i feel very bad when people dont keep up to their words.
why should i expect something then, i think that expectations is the cause of all our depressions and sadness. when people dont expect anything from anyone, everything seems to be a surpise, things always are good.
but why do people expect something from anyone, be it a greeting card for birthday, gifts, favours, money, bribe, or anything. not because they have done something the same for others but sheer laziness and selfishness. Our lord God has said do to others whatever you want others to do it for you.
Bribe or favour are apart of the expectations, if a person doesnt do as the expectant then the person gets punished or dealt in a way which is doesnt favour him.
When we dont expect anything even a return favor it always makes us to stand up and keep our heads up in achieving a task of helping others.
and helping without expecting anything in return, not even from God is the noblest things on earth.
Let keep doing our good deeds as long as we can, otherwise lets stick to simple things, but let try keep our expectations the minimum. this will make us strong, make us confident on ourselves, our hard work alone will lead us to victory.
Good luck..
Sunday, May 3, 2009
Save your memory space..
when i was a kid, i used to remember all the film names, actors,actresses, directors, especially music directors and their songs. i even used to remember what the actor said inrecent interviews and whats their choice of things etc., i believe most of us do the same, well its jus a time pass to hear all these.. there are various other things too we remember.
But have we thought that what ever we remember which are nt useful to us or to anyone occupies alot of cells in our memory?, it actually is occupying. but we say tht we have a bad memory and dont remember things very clearly. why are we contradicting our statements always, the problem is not with anything but ourselves.
the cells which has occupied i would term it as bad cells, overlap with our interests, we tend to remember what we want, so which is why the good cells are nt finding easy to get register in the memory.. i m not going indepth into the topic as it vast and huge to give examples and work.
the simplest way to increase our memory is by eliminating the bad cells and wat it has stored. On how to do it is by a simple way " Say 'delete' whenever you get the memory of wat you want to delete", say for instance when you think of some Television interview of an actor of what he said say 'Delete' and keep focussing of something other, give focus to your senses esp your eye sight.
This will not be deleted immediately as it needs practice to get them deleted, so same or similar thought when arises, keep saying the same so that its gets actually deleted. Mebbe after someday you try to remember that sequence which you wanted to delete it, you would find it tough to recollect.
keep trying to delete as much as you can whichever you feel is unnecessary
But have we thought that what ever we remember which are nt useful to us or to anyone occupies alot of cells in our memory?, it actually is occupying. but we say tht we have a bad memory and dont remember things very clearly. why are we contradicting our statements always, the problem is not with anything but ourselves.
the cells which has occupied i would term it as bad cells, overlap with our interests, we tend to remember what we want, so which is why the good cells are nt finding easy to get register in the memory.. i m not going indepth into the topic as it vast and huge to give examples and work.
the simplest way to increase our memory is by eliminating the bad cells and wat it has stored. On how to do it is by a simple way " Say 'delete' whenever you get the memory of wat you want to delete", say for instance when you think of some Television interview of an actor of what he said say 'Delete' and keep focussing of something other, give focus to your senses esp your eye sight.
This will not be deleted immediately as it needs practice to get them deleted, so same or similar thought when arises, keep saying the same so that its gets actually deleted. Mebbe after someday you try to remember that sequence which you wanted to delete it, you would find it tough to recollect.
keep trying to delete as much as you can whichever you feel is unnecessary
Slow Motion Therapy
Well in this busy world of impatience we tend to miss out the best of life , the best of life will include some best moments to cherish too ,impatience and restlessness result in various failures. we dont consciously work on things and our mind get wandering on something. our subconscious mind think of something irrelevant and out focussed.
In order to get our subconscious mind and active mind together, i refer something called "slowmotion therapy" what is this slow motion therapy, well its a simple way of making our mind and body focussed on things we do.
i have not heard anything on this topic in particular which made me to initiate this and try. How to do this therapy?, its simple jus do what ever you are doing currently "slowly to absolute slowly", chk how long can u keep doing it on different works , like taking things @ your reach, walking slowly, nodding, washing your face, even reading too., everything you feel you can do slowly.
This model doesnt require any special training its as simple as that do things slowly and make your senses focus on wat you do, when you are doing things slowly very consciously you are making your subconscious mind syncing with your active mind.
when we do things slowly we are relaxing more since the subconscious mind is taking over the active mind and both our minds share the thinking process we undertake, so it relaxes the whole of things.
keep trying and suggest to your friends too, lets see if it gives some relax like wat i got.
In order to get our subconscious mind and active mind together, i refer something called "slowmotion therapy" what is this slow motion therapy, well its a simple way of making our mind and body focussed on things we do.
i have not heard anything on this topic in particular which made me to initiate this and try. How to do this therapy?, its simple jus do what ever you are doing currently "slowly to absolute slowly", chk how long can u keep doing it on different works , like taking things @ your reach, walking slowly, nodding, washing your face, even reading too., everything you feel you can do slowly.
This model doesnt require any special training its as simple as that do things slowly and make your senses focus on wat you do, when you are doing things slowly very consciously you are making your subconscious mind syncing with your active mind.
when we do things slowly we are relaxing more since the subconscious mind is taking over the active mind and both our minds share the thinking process we undertake, so it relaxes the whole of things.
keep trying and suggest to your friends too, lets see if it gives some relax like wat i got.
Friday, April 3, 2009
Commitment
commit what you can,
commit if you know for sure
well jus for a sake of doing dont commit anything, it not only gives a wrong impression abt you but also give unwanted necessity.
people would have plans based on our commitment, all the plans wud go waste once we fail to do wat we commit.
i understand not always we could keep up with our commitmt, but least thing is shud keep them updated on this.
commit if you know for sure
well jus for a sake of doing dont commit anything, it not only gives a wrong impression abt you but also give unwanted necessity.
people would have plans based on our commitment, all the plans wud go waste once we fail to do wat we commit.
i understand not always we could keep up with our commitmt, but least thing is shud keep them updated on this.
Help
Help,
you can only do when you can?but to help others itself is a gift, not all persons can do it.
to what level can we stretch ourselves to help others is does matter, never mind the returns
infact the returns shouldnt be thought at all, otherwise the purpose doesnt get served.
No returns, not even you can demand God jus because you done some good.
it no deal-deal matter, but the willingness to serve.
be it anything, money, physical help, moral support, prayers, anything and everything we intend
it only our intention to serve others does matter.
these days organ donation is getting popular, what a courage to do it, the role model may be anyone, it need be publicized but the greatest intention. It is the greatest thing, no one can repay it.
Money is just a piece of paper as i always say, which doesnt have any emotions. by giving money with a intention to help doesnt make, afterall with only that money we are not going to be millionaires.
I always pity people who are so stingy, they are still to find the happiness of helping others.,
I m still forcing myself to change so that i can be like as i above said.
you can only do when you can?but to help others itself is a gift, not all persons can do it.
to what level can we stretch ourselves to help others is does matter, never mind the returns
infact the returns shouldnt be thought at all, otherwise the purpose doesnt get served.
No returns, not even you can demand God jus because you done some good.
it no deal-deal matter, but the willingness to serve.
be it anything, money, physical help, moral support, prayers, anything and everything we intend
it only our intention to serve others does matter.
these days organ donation is getting popular, what a courage to do it, the role model may be anyone, it need be publicized but the greatest intention. It is the greatest thing, no one can repay it.
Money is just a piece of paper as i always say, which doesnt have any emotions. by giving money with a intention to help doesnt make, afterall with only that money we are not going to be millionaires.
I always pity people who are so stingy, they are still to find the happiness of helping others.,
I m still forcing myself to change so that i can be like as i above said.
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